Are women allowed to enjoy sex?

photo-on-22-11-2014-at-17-32-2A reader once asked me, ‘who said Sex was a dirty word?’ But somehow as women it is frowned upon to speak openly about sex; there is almost a negative stigma attached to women who do. There are also labels that tend to follow women who are open about their sex lives. Whilst I do not promote promiscuity for several reasons including STI’s and unwanted pregnancies, I do promote confidence in a woman, in all areas. Sex is a gift that when shared between two people who are equally committed and in love, it can be a beautiful experience indeed.

“As they were drinking he began to speak to her neck followed with gentle moist kisses, her eyes closed as his tongue began to circle around the fine lines of her neck towards her ever so succulent youthful breasts. She had not felt this way before. He unzipped her garment and laid her gently on the bed. ‘Mmmmm….’ he kept kissing her and using his tongue as a marker on her body until his tongue reached her weakest spot, unbeknown to her. She growled and moaned uncontrollably not knowing whether she wanted him to continue or stop- her hands moving his head back and forth like she was controlling his every movement. Her legs involuntarily shaking through the pleasure. Her teeth gripping firmly on her bottom lip and her eyes flickering like a light switch….Then there was stillness which she used to catch her breath; as she felt him slip in and she groaned even louder but this time his strong arms were supporting the weight of her body as he moved her up and down as if she was in a Merry Go Round.

He gently pulled her hair back and continued where he left off biting and sucking on her neck. Oh how it felt so good… and she continued thrusting herself backwards and forwards not wanting the ride to ever end. Every frustration in her body was released; with a deep sigh and heavy breathing they looked deeply into each other’s eyes and smiled. Acknowledging each other with full satisfaction.” Extract from my book- Resuscitate Me, 2016.

Our bodies are temples and gifts. Gifts this special should not just be shared with anyone, however when Love is in the mix of Sex- it becomes Love making, a symphony of melodies that only those involved understand the depths and the levels to the emotions that they are exploring.

That is why I am a big believer of setting standards and enjoying the rewards of your patience, because I have learnt that in life we don’t always get what we deserve, but we definitely get what we allow.

Not everyone deserves to be with you. So be kind to yourself, set standards and choose a life partner whom you wish to share every aspect of yourself with.


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Crystal Williams UD


Crystal Williams UD is the founder of Thinking Out Loud which is a conference held each year that encourages self love, promotes self-worth and most importantly empowers to feel comfortable in the skin that they are in. Crystal Williams is an affluent Poet, Motivational Speaker and Author. Her books have sold worldwide in the UK, Canada and USA.

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